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31 Years and More

October 13, 2018 marked 31 years since the foundation of  Little Children of the World, Inc.  Founders, Dr. Bettie “Nanay”  Elwood and Peggy Houk, have been an integral part of LCW’s ministry. Bettie and Peggy along with their late husbands, Doug and Dean, and late brother, Luther, founded LCW and LCP with the vision to create caring, Christian communities for the world’s children at risk so that they may be able to escape poverty and abuse. During the biannual LCW joint board and  advisory council meeting Bettie, 87, and Peggy, 93, announced their official retirement from the advisory council. Bettie and Peggy have both served as Board of Directors and Advisory Council members. Bettie served as LCW President from 1987-2009 when current president, Glenna Waller, was elected. Peggy served as the LCW Treasurer and Writer/Editor for all the ministry publications. Both have served diligently and faithfully once their vision to start LCW came to fruition. For over 31 years,  Bettie and Peggy have been the backbone of LCW well into their retirements when most people would no longer be working at all. They have left great shoes to fill, but their vision and mission will live on.

As we reminisce on the past 31 years, we are so grateful for all that Bettie and Peggy have done for Little Children of the World. So many lives have been changed because they cared and worked to change the world one child at a time. The world is truly a better place because they lived their lives in obedience to the Lord.

Thank you Dr. Bettie Elwood and Peggy Houk for your vision and initiative to start this ministry and your commitment to serving the children all these years.

Work of Faith, Labor of Love, & Steadfastness of Hope

Two texts of Scripture come immediately to mind when I think about my time at LCP. What else would you expect from a pastor? The first passage is Paul’s prayer of Thanksgiving for the church in Thessalonica and the second is Jesus’s short parable of the Kingdom of God in Matthew 13.

For me, LCP exhibits the same three things for which Paul was thankful in the young church in Thessalonica: her work of faith, labor of love, and steadfastness of hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.

I was truly amazed at the comprehensiveness of the work of faith in which LCP has been engaged. I saw it in the pre-schools; the School on Wheels, the soup kitchens; the weekly Bible studies; the Spirit filled worship service; the daily staff devotions; the clean, safe residences and the lovingly cared for children who live in them; the health clinic; the physical therapy program; the chorizo manufacturing livelihood project; and the scores of sponsored children and families. The comprehensive nature of the program was mind boggling considering that LCP has only been at work for a short 30 years.

I also saw LCP’s work of faith, labor of love, and steadfastness of hope in the smile of a CP afflicted child fully included in a pre-school class and lovingly assisted by his mother. I saw it in the huge well-used Bible in the lap of an elderly woman in one of the community Bible studies. I saw it in the hopes and dreams of the girls in the Wee Women’s Dorm, the younger boys in the Hanson House, and the older boys at the Consuelo Home. I saw it in the eyes of our sponsored child and her mother. I heard it in the stories of the alumni. I saw it in the joy and excitement of the high school, college, preschool and School on Wheel’s graduates. I saw it in the teamwork, dedication, enthusiasm, and wisdom of the staff. I saw it and was humbled by it.  Jesus said that faith can move mountains. LCP is living testimony to that truth.

LCP is an exhibition of what Jesus spoke about in what I think is his shortest parable of the Kingdom of God in Matthew 13:33. Jesus said that the Kingdom of God is like the leaven hidden in three measures of flour that eventually leavens the whole batch. LCP graduates are that leaven from my perspective. LCP nurtures and equips them and then sends them out into society to infuse it with the Kingdom of God. As a result, LCP is not only serving the children and families of Dumaguete but also the wider society through them.

We are deeply appreciative to have had an opportunity to help out with the community Bible studies and at the soup kitchens. I must admit that I felt a little unprepared and not really sure what passage of Scripture to choose for the studies but the one I finally did choose, Matthew 5:14-16, seemed to work.

One thing that I thought about when I saw the overwhelming involvement of the mothers of sponsored children was what it would take to get the fathers more visibly involved. Perhaps the Holy Spirit was opening our eyes to a new opportunity. On my return, I took the liberty of speaking to a colleague who has been deeply involved in men’s ministry for a number of years. Our conversation has only begun and I hope that the Lord will grace us with some useful ideas to share.

The trip is best summarized for me by the reaction of one of the congregants in the church I am temporarily serving as interim pastor. She looked at my face, heard some of the stories and said that I should go on more such trips because I looked so refreshed and excited about what I had seen God doing at LCP. For her to see that in me in spite of my struggling with jet lag was a testament to the amazing ministry of LCP.

My wife, Kathy, and I look forward to being advocates in the future for the program in the Mid-Atlantic. We now not only have a wealth of information and experiences to share, we also have the excitement and compulsion to share it.

 

By: John Paderson, LCP Volunteer

 

 

Stories of SOW

The Stories Behind the First-Ever School on Wheels (SOW) Curriculum

By: Johanna Meier and Emma Warman, 2017-2018 Class SOW Volunteers

***Note: the stories in this article are true and may be disturbing to some readers

Imagine sitting in the back of a white LCP van, driving through bumpy back roads in dusty Dumaguete. The van stops by the side of a brown, broken concrete-sided river, and the back door bursts open. Whooping, laughing kids pile in, their thin brown bodies barely covered by oversized clothing marked by gaping holes and raggedy edges. It is hard to tell the color that their clothing used to be. The smell is almost unbearable. This is a group of students of the School on Wheels (SOW) Program of LCP, a program that has prepared dozens of past out-of-school children to become enrolled in formal schooling. Children are transported to classes at LCP on weekday afternoons for one year, and those who show the most promise are found sponsors to attend formal school the following year. SOW is known at LCP as the program of the rowdiest and wildest children. Children as young as ten can be found with cigarettes in their pockets, or high on glue or paint thinner, running around LCP with no shoes and urinating on playground equipment. Shocked from this description? You can imagine our feeling when we first started volunteering to tutor and assist in the program.

Our role as volunteers in the 2017-2018 Class included teaching off-the-bat lessons for the children as the SOW teacher, Carmencita, cooked them lunch. This proved difficult when we had no teaching background or module to follow. Other challenges included unruly behavior of children used to fending for themselves on the street who didn’t take kindly to being reprimanded, as well as vast variations in skill level. Some students had dropped out of school after the fifth grade, while others didn’t even hold a pencil. We did our best to come up with lessons the night before class and to learn words in Bisaya, the local language, to better communicate with students, though we found that accompanying staff on home visits gave us an entirely new outlook on the students in the program.

SOW students live along the Banica River in Dumaguete in squatter homes, with large and mostly broken families. Drug use and unemployment run high in this community, and most children, even those few who have a mother or father, are left to fend for themselves. Few, if any, are enrolled in school, due to lack of funds, and apathy of parents. We will share stories from a few children we came to know in the 2017-2018 SOW class. We will change their names in this post to protect their confidentiality.

We noticed that ten-year old Mark was one of the bullies in class, often causing problems that brought younger students to tears. When we visited his home along the river, we saw it was riddled with bullet holes, and his mother told us about how his father had been killed years earlier by his uncle in a dispute involving drugs. His mother was left to care for Mark and his siblings with no source of income. She tries to scrape together coins from playing bingo, but is unable to make enough to provide for the family or afford school materials for Mark. Once we had seen that Mark’s family situation was a far cry from easy, we had more patience in talking with him when he bullied the other children, and understood more about where his aggression may come from.

An issue for many students was a sense of motivation about learning or going to school. This was the case for Cynthia, who is thirteen, living in a one room squatter home with four younger siblings, a mother, and stepfather. We learned over time that Cynthia’s mother is a drug user who is unable to care for the children, while the stepfather, working, is also unable to assist in parenting. Cynthia, being the oldest, is expected to look after the others. One week during the SOW year, when her mother was held in a drug rehabilitation clinic in a nearby town, Cynthia brought her siblings with her to SOW during this time so that she could still attend class. She also balanced class with visiting her mother in the rehabilitation clinic to care for her and bring her food and water. A student who we once thought was unmotivated in class we now learned had the drive to multitask and parent at the age of thirteen.

Something else that clear among many SOW children was the experience of abuse in their community. This may have been part of the reason why many children were slow to focus or respond in class. Twelve-year old Christian, for example, grew up with a mother struggling with mental illness, and likely using drugs. His mother seemed unable to stop having children, and after she gave birth to seven, several of the siblings fell in and out of shelters because their parents were unable to care for them. Abuse reported by Christian included an almost daily occurrence of their parents engaging in intercourse in front of the children. When the children would cry and begged their parents to stop, their parents would merely laugh at them and continue. Christian was expected to beg at a nearby convenience store at night, and if he didn’t bring home money, he was beaten. At one point, when he didn’t bring home enough money to please his parents, his eight year old brother began to be sent to beg instead, so he fell out of coming to SOW class for a while. In the middle of the SOW year, Christian was recruited by neighbors to assist in the trafficking of young girls in the community. It took LCP social workers following him at night and begging him to stop to finally bring him to return to class.

These stories and countless others helped us to better connect with the children as we spent more time with them throughout the year. The importance of SOW, aside from removing children from dangerous situations and showing them a place where they are loved, is that SOW provides these children a future. For instance, Mark, from the first story, dropped out of school years ago, but after this past year of SOW, he was encouraged and assisted to continue his education. He returned to Grade 4 this past May. Cynthia, in the second story, was enrolled in Grade 5 this past May. Christian, in the third, started in a special education program at a local elementary school in the same month.

We have come out of one year volunteering in SOW with a different outlook on our own upbringings. We took our nurturing families, our free schooling, and our time to play and be children, for granted. After learning more and more about the situations of the SOW children, we decided to create a curriculum to guide future volunteers to help future students in class. Future volunteers may enter the program with the same prejudices and lack of knowledge that we had, and a curriculum is something we can leave behind to provide lessons and worksheets for volunteers. We worked for several months to compile lessons taken from textbooks and websites for the levels of Preschool, Grades 3-4, and Grades 5-6. Each level has a table of contents marking 50 or more lessons in each topic of Math, Science, and English. There is an accompanying Volunteer Guide to walk volunteers through teaching simple lessons with no prior experience required. We hope that this curriculum, as well as future volunteers and continued funding from donors, will keep the SOW program running to change the lives of children to come.

Thank you Emma, Johanna, and Feli for your hard work and dedication to creating this curriculum. You are changing the lives of current and future SOW students. Thank you for your time volunteering at LCP and doing such great work.

If you wish to learn more about the School on Wheels programs, read more here.

If you would like to support this program financially, donate here.

Leaving a Legacy, One Child at a Time

We say sponsorship changes lives, and it truly does. Some of our sponsors have been giving a hand up to a brighter future for many years. They have seen their sponsored children grow into adults and graduate from college, then take on another sponsored child. It is now 2018, and we are seeing a lot of second and third generation sponsors.

For example, Dwight and Lori Henderson have been sponsoring since 1993. They came with the Presbyterian Church in Sudbury group to give their time and services at LCP in July 2018. Since learning about LCW/LCP, they have supported 16 children. They have seen 4 of their sponsored children through high school graduation and the remaining 8 all the way through college. They currently support 2 children through sponsorship and 2 through college sponsorship.

Through their support, not only are their graduates working, they are thriving! Places of work all over the city and beyond have been touched because they gave. One of their graduates is even working as the psychometrician at the mental health office in Dumaguete, a highly sought-after and well-respected position.

During the Meet and Greet time with PCIS, Dwight and Lori’s current and former sponsored children and graduates came to show their appreciation to their donors. Without the Henderson’s, their lives would certainly be very different.

You can create a generational change, just like Dwight and Lori. Sponsoring just one child changes their life forever, not only that, it affects their families in the future in a good way. It breaks the cycle of poverty! Even if you cannot commit to monthly sponsorship all of our HELPS programs ae in need of funding, and contribute to changing lives for the better. Consider sponsoring a child or giving a financial gift today. Thank You!